Kuwentong Bangtan: Pearl ARMYs as a Force of Good

Because fanbases, especially those composed of women, can be a force of good.

I am a proud member and moderator of Titas of BTS  (TOB), an online community of working women, empowered and accomplished in their own field of discipline who stan BTS. For nearly two years now, I have an active involvement in the many activities which the TOB Admins and Moderators design, plan and roll out for its members. The experience is not for the faint of heart, but it is equally fulfilling. Besides the usual "kilig" over BTS, we come together to live out the experience of what BTS stands for.

Bangtan speaks of many things of value to living a full and happy life in the face of challenges and struggles that are personal and societal. They inspire ARMYs to constantly seek meaning and self worth. Through their songs, they invite ARMY to walk with them as they have expereinces similar and significat to fans despite their "idol" status. If not intentionally, they promote fun and play, intelligent humor and the nurturing of deep friendships in the most natural way. I am still perplexed at the display of authencity of the Bangtan Guys but, they are sincere people without even trying. They are not perfect and in many interviews, live vlogs and socmed postings, they express their fears, admit their mistakes and show ways to make up for it. Over the years, they have learned to draw the line between their personal lives and "idol" or artist persona.

Needless to say, they are learning constantly. Theirs is a journey of becoming. As ARMY, it's a ride I am willing to take on with them. So, it is not surprising how Tobbies (a nickname we fondly call each other) such as myself can organize activities and events for a good cause. It's Namkook Month this September and we have a book club discussion for self care and personal growth; a book donation drive to share this love for oneself to others; and a tree planting activity at Happy Farm, Pototatn Iliolo. For those saying that ARMYs are freaking, shrieking 15 year old girls, think again. 

Also, 15 year old girls who shreik over their idols are a collective force to be reckoned with. That is the future you are mocking. STOB it. There are ways to guide, harness and grow such energy into something creative and beautiful.