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Tuesday, June 24, 2025

Heart and Seoul Travel Log Day 2: D2 Heart and Seoul: Shared Memories

This morning, we visited the In the Soop Mansion*. I’m too overwhelmed to even put into writing the experience of being in a place, if only for a few hours, where Bangtan carved a space to be, to create, to rest during the pandemic. It felt like visiting a memory that wasn’t ours but somehow belonged to us, too.




And to see my ARMY Daughter having a great time and kilig gives me a joy that isn’t loud, but proud.

BTS is the gift that keeps on giving.

Apobangpo! Purple and true! 

*Written on 6.11.2025

Monday, June 23, 2025

Heart and Seoul Travel Log Day 5: Light and Shadow

“I am you, you are me, now you do know | You are me, I am you, now do you know | We are one body and we are gonna clash| We are you, we are me—this, do you know?”

— SUGA, Interlude: Shadow from Map of the Soul 7

Wearing a Hanbok and strolling in the palace grounds of Gyeongbokgung Palace is a staple when you’re visiting Seoul for a vacation or tour. We did just that! Thanks to Savedbythebest Travel and Tours for this chance to play and wonder. As Kdrama fans, not just ARMY, cosplaying as Jeoson women is a fantasy fulfilled.



Wearing a hanbok in summer in Seoul, can be excruciating though. But there we were, ARMY Daughter living her Joseon baddie dream and me, ramdam na ramdam ang pagiging ahjumma.
When was the last time we played or had fun together like this? What stands out are memories of battles we fought and won, as well as the ones we gloriously lost. One thing is for sure, she and I, we will be together in more fights in the future.



This is why, I left Seoul with more questions than answers. And it’s ok because life is continuous journey of wondering where introspection and reflection are part and parcel of being. I do not know when these questions will get answers, but I dare ask.
๐Ÿ’œ What does it mean to grow beside someone you love; someone who grew inside of you and is now growing up and out unto the world? In Seoul, I saw in her a quiet becoming and the sassy way she deals with cards is impressive. I have a lot to learn.
๐Ÿ’œWhere does she end and I begin? Or do we move like a mobius strip?No end. No beginning. As I age, our roles overlap now. I see our differences and in it, our shared longing to understand the world and each other.
She has become my friend. And I, her ally. I pray to be the good friend and honest ally she truly deserves.


๐Ÿ’œWhat part of myself is she walking towards and away from?
My eternal optimism? The uncanny way I put my trust in the universe? Whatever shadow of mine she carries, may she do it with grace and gratitude because, the darkness can be kind, too.
To my ARMY Daughter, my dragon child, may you walk boldly in both light and shadow knowing I will always be just a few steps behind, cheering, learning, and loving you through it all.
Apobangpo! Purple and true!

Sunday, June 22, 2025

Heart and Seoul Travel Log: Food for the Soul Series 1 Entry #1- Korean Bulalo, Kimchi and Injeolmi

Our trip to Seoul for BTS’ 2025 Festa was truly one for the books. Our Purple Hearts are still glowing lilac from the experience, deepened in more ways than one. The journey didn’t just offer us a glimpse of the Korea that our Bangtan boys grew up loving; it let us taste it. We savored the food that has nourished their bodies and souls.

As a K-drama fan, this was more than a fangirling experience and BTS Pilgrimage. It was a tour with cultural and historical relevance. With each meal carefully curated by our guide, I finally experienced the flavors I had only seen through a screen. Sure, I’ve had Korean dishes back home in Biรฑan, but nothing compares to eating authentic Korean food, prepared by Korean cooks and chefs, in the land where these dishes were born. It was not just delicious; it was unforgettable. A once-in-a-lifetime experience.

 Seolleongtang (์„ค๋ ํƒ•) – Korean ox bone soup, with white rice and kimchi

Fresh from Incheon Airport and enduring the 18–20°C weather, our one-hour bus commute offered us a short nap and a quiet moment to settle in. My expectations upon arriving at our first Korean restaurant (I forgot to ask our tour guide for the name) were high and thankfully, they were met.

My first taste of Korean ox bone soup with kimchi: cabbage, radish, and white rice was comforting, grounding, and rejuvenating. Beside me was Zoe, my ARMY daughter, softly humming in approval.


The soup had just the right amount of beef, glass noodles, and green onions. It isn’t as savory as our bulalo, but the tang of the beef lingers. The side dishes, especially the cabbage kimchi, carried a subtle sweetness that stayed long after the next bite. No frills, just nourishment. The kind of food that steadies the soul. With each spoonful, it seemed to whisper, “You’ve made it.” 

Conversations about how tasty and filling the dish was floated around our table. Some asked for salt, even searched for patis or toyo, but for me, the broth’s gentle blandness gave full justice to the kimchi, the starchiness of rice, and why ox bone soup is ever present in K-dramas like Dr. Romantic and Weak Hero Class 1. Life is a battle. In the emergency room or at a hospital bed, seolleongtang  becomes both cure and balm. In The Glory, when the female leads meet over ox bone soup, they are preparing for revenge.

All of a sudden, it occurred to me: we, too, were about to face something. The fight to make the most of our five days and four nights in Seoul: the push and pull of desire, fatigue, wonder, and the resilience of fangirls in pilgrimage.

Watermelon Bingsu๋น™์ˆ˜ (literally means "shaved ice") and Injeolmi์ธ์ ˆ๋ฏธ (a type of rice cake coated in roasted soybean powder) in Hangang-daero

The first official stop of our tour was the HYBE building in Hangang-daero. A throng of ARMYs from all over the world was already gathered along the sidewalk, hoping to catch a glimpse of RM and V’s black cars entering the building. After taking our customary group photos, we decided to visit a cafรฉ nearby to extend our rest. A four-hour flight was manageable, but the six hours of prep time at the airport had worn me out.

Luckily, Zoe loves hanging out in cafรฉs, so we picked one near HYBE. The vibe was electric and joyful. Where ARMYs gather, there’s always that boundless energy of camaraderie. Needless to say, we met many international ARMYs who had flown in for the 2025 BTS Festa.

At Mealtop Cafรฉ, I ordered injeolmi, and my Tita ARMY friend chose bingsu. This was both our snack and dessert rolled into one. After a hearty bowl of seolleongtang and white rice, the soft, chewy rice cake dusted in roasted soybean powder was the perfect follow-up. Injeolmi grounds the palate—it’s mellow and earthy, with a texture that reminded me of tikoy and espasol.

Later, I admittedly regretted indulging in such a calorie-laden snack, especially when we were soon served veggie bibimbap for our late lunch. Still, this traditional Korean treat left an impression. Like Seoul itself, injeolmi is practical, grounding and steady.

That first day in Seoul reminded me that food isn’t just about filling the stomach—it’s about grounding the spirit. It’s amazing how foreign food can do this. Despite the differences, I found unexpected connections to the home-cooked Filipino dishes we love. From the warmth of seolleongtang to the quiet comfort of injeolmi, every bite carried a story, a memory, a beginning. And as we walked back to the bus stop, I knew this journey would nourish more than just my appetite.

Up next: bibimbap, Jeyuk Bokkeum (์ œ์œก๋ณถ์Œ), Doenjang-guk (๋œ์žฅ๊ตญ), Ssam veggies, rice, banchan

Friday, June 20, 2025

Heart and Seoul Travel Log Day 4: I do believe your galaxy

It was the height of Covid when I came upon this interview of BTS in Rolling Stone. It was one of their better interviews, I think, and of the seven, it was Namjoon’s that I was drawn to because there was a part in it where he speaks about the unnoticed, the ordinary, and even the forgotten carrying entire universes within. That each of us, even rocks, has the potential for growth and the capability to shine. The irony is, we don’t realize or recognize it until it is too late.

Believe it or not, I carried his words like a mantra the entire lockdown and it saw me through until the restrictions were lifted in 2022.
Fast forward to Festa 2025 where I found myself and ARMY Daughter at Cafรฉ Far Ben in Seongsu. We ditched the Festa celebrations to bask in one of the galaxies of Kim Kyung Min, the sister Namjoon believes to have galaxies inside her. Sitting there, I realized, maybe it takes one galaxy to recognize another.
I’m glad we came back on a quieter day, when there were fewer people and space to breathe. Namjoon’s sister wasn’t there, which, in its own way, made it even more meaningful.
We were there to seek and share quiet moments of our own and yet, bound by togetherness. I was there to give respect and express gratitude. ARMY Daughter was there to stand by me. We were there for each other.
We were a mother and daughter, on our artist’s date: me, watercolor painting; Zoe, reading, taking pictures, and journaling. The cafรฉ, on that day, exuded an energy of openness and calm. As if the very walls knew they were made to hold softness, silence, and the creative shaping of stories— our own galaxies soon to shine. When darkness comes to envelope us again, we have an array of stars to catch or look upon with love and hope. Being in the dark would be less frightening.
Apobangpo! Purple and true!

Tuesday, June 17, 2025

Tita ARMY Tours South Korea at Festa 2025

 “We were together / Every moment was forever.” — Take Two, BTS

Our ARMY Tour, our 5 days and 4 nights in Seoul was life-affirming and rejuvenating.
What made it so was many things:
๐Ÿ’œ How some of us had been saving up since the Pearl ARMY Festa of 2024, turning this into our ARMY Glow Up project, a dream sustained by intention.
๐Ÿ’œ How bravely some of us made the decision to travel alone and join a group for the first time, choosing courage over comfort, and community over solitude.
๐Ÿ’œ How some of us brought family—daughter, sister, niece, to bond, uplift, and support each other’s fangirling. And in the process, we discovered how powerful our desires can become when channeled through creative ways.
๐Ÿ’œ How we held space for one another at the dining table from the communal and down-to-earth warmth of Yoojung Sikdang to the quiet elegance of Otsu, where stories flowed as freely as soup.
๐Ÿ’œ How we looked out for each other in crowded streets and alleyways of Myeongdong and Hongdae, when bodies were close but hearts stayed open.
๐Ÿ’œ The walks we took in forest and stadium, in silence and in laughter.
๐Ÿ’œ And the way we laughed. The way we wept. Seeing our OT7 together on that stadium screen, dancing to Mic Drop, then collapsing emotionally at Spring Day and Jamais Vu.
Team Labas. Team Loob. Team Hotel. Lahat tayo. We were all part of it. We were different but together.
We weren’t just in Seoul for a clique-ish girls’ night out. We came to experience and listen to the city. To bear witness to its character. To understand how it shaped BTS and how BTS shaped us, continuously so, in our own unique ways of expressing ourselves as ARMY.
Thank you Teena Ordoรฑo of Savedbythebest Travel and Tours for making this happen!
Apobangpo! Purple and true!

Monday, June 16, 2025

Kuwentong Bangtan: Our Celebration of BTS FESTA 2025 is a Pilgrimage of Purple Love

ARMY Daughter and I are back from Seoul where we joined a 5 Days and 4 Nights curated tour for ARMY at Festa season by Savedbythebest Travel and Tours. This trip is a product of blood, sweat and tears. It took us a eighteen months to save for this trip on top of life challenges one after the other. This is the toughest ARMY Glow Up Project I had. And somewhere in the middle of all this, I am grateful to have received the graces of friendship and companionship. 

This trip is precious to me not only as ARMY but as a mother. Being with Zoe, my daughter who became ARMY years ahead of me, this is a mother-and-daughter journey through Seoul; through light and shadow, memory and music.

I wrote and reflected each step of the journey on my social media pages. Here's everything from Day 1 to Day 5.

D1: Heart and Seoul – We Never Walk Alone

Theme: Arrival, belonging, and walking in their footsteps
Key Stops: HYBE Building, Hyuga Cafรฉ, Old Big Hit, Hakdong Park, Yoojung Sikdang


Reflection: From fog to warmth, from dorms to dreams, from their footsteps to ours, we were never alone.

D2: Heart and Seoul – Shared Memories

Theme: Reverence, rest, and memory that transcends ownership
Key Stop: In the SOOP Mansion


Reflection: To visit a space where BTS once rested is to understand that silence is a kind of presence. Rest is sacred. Memory is shared.

D3: Heart and Seoul – Why Do You Sound Like Soul?

Theme: Namjooning, city rhythms, and sensory immersion
Key Stops: Myeongdong Cathedral, parks, alleyways, food stalls


Reflection: Seoul isn’t just a city—it sings. And for the first time, I knew the lyrics were meant for me, too.

D4: Heart and Seoul – Born in Seoul, Raised in Ilsan

Theme: Movement, generational role shift, and place as identity
Key Stops: Seongsu, Ilsan commute, Lake Park


Reflection: She leads now, the way I once did. I see the city through her steps—and remember how Namjoon once walked from hometown to dream.

D5: Heart and Seoul – Light and Shadow

Theme: Becoming, motherhood, and shared inner journeys
Key Stop: Gyeongbokgung Palace (Hanbok day)


Reflection: She is growing up and out into the world. And I, once her guide, now stand beside her as a friend, an ally, a witness.