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Saturday, May 31, 2025

Kuwentong Bangtan: From Candified Sex to Confident Sexuality

In Chapter 2 of BTS, the Tannies are moving from Kpop’s signature rendition of candified sex to confident sexuality. All of it happening while on military service, on hiatus and in post enlistment solo projects. And ARMY is so ready for it!

What was once a sugar-coated and stylized depiction of sexuality is now grounded, intentional, and fully owned. They no longer perform desire, they embody it, with clarity, class, agency, and truth.



This evolution isn’t just about attraction, it’s about intimacy: the longing for it, the fear of isolation, and the courage to be seen and heard in an industry polluted by noise and vivid visual effects. Sexuality, in this context, has to be seen as a form of self-expression the most honest way a person can show who they are, and not as a committed sin bound by punishment.

Take Namjoon’s RPWP, for instance. Its critical acclaim speaks to its rawness and artistic integrity. But not everyone is drawn to that kind of honesty and that’s okay. Vulnerability doesn’t look like power to everyone. Still, for those ready to accept and face it, it offers something real and rare.
For Jin and Hoseok, they are both exploring and presenting sexuality in different ways, staying true to their unique artistic voices.
Jin expresses intimacy and longing through powerful rock ballads. In The Astronaut, he captures a deep, faithful connection that transcends cosmic distance. In Don’t Say You Love Me, he reflects on how relationships can either set us free or quietly undo us—reminding us that love isn’t always a balm. I Will Come To You is a tender lullaby that quietly assures loyalty and faithfulness.

Hoseok, on the other hand, is crafting what feels like a triptych of desire with Sweet Dreams, Mona Lisa, and the soon to be released Killin’ It Girl. These tracks map the emotional, playful, and empowering layers of attraction. If one is true to themselves, desire becomes a force for independence and agency. From the raw grit of More to the fiery reckoning of Arson, Hoseok has truly grown. He unfolding into his own as we witness it, step by step.
As for Yoongi, his courage to close the door in the room that once confined him in the song Amygdala is an expression of radical self-preservation. It’s not just about pain but it’s about choosing to stop carrying what no longer serves a purpose. In that act, vulnerability becomes resistance. Silence becomes survival. And healing begins not with forgetting, but with the decision to finally put yourself first.
By following their journey, from candified performance to confident presence, we see that BTS isn’t just maturing musically. They are deepening what it means to be human in front of the world. Their solo works invite us to look inward— in the quiet empty spaces where we can name our longings, to heal without shame, to stand in our truths and hold our power, however soft or raw. This is not a mere spectacle of desire anymore that Kpop commodifies. It is a quiet, powerful reclamation of self which, if you come to think about it, BTS has consistently been doing since 2013.



Next up is the maknae line. However, I find their music more overwhelming to reflect and write about. Those three, Jimin, V and JK— they are desire personified. Sexuality on two legs. Jebal.

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